Saturday, June 30, 2012
Going Coke-free....almost.
Wednesday, June 27, 2012
Organize one thing Wednesdays
It's Wednesday. It's the middle of the week. You're tired of work and you're ticked because all that hard work and organizing and cleaning that you did Saturday and Sunday is disappearing. Ladies and gentlemen, you have the "Hump Day Blues." I get them BAD. I work on cleaning during my weekend and get everything picked up and where I want it. Monday comes, I go to work, come home, cook dinner, do some laundry, go through Avery's bedtime routine, spend some time with the husband, go to bed. Tuesday comes, I repeat. If I'm lucky, that'll be the only routine--but more often than not, wrenches are thrown into our weekday plans and we'll have church meeting or a softball game or a family birthday party. During the week, my house is an all-out, war-zone, Hurricane Avery type mess. Cleaning it all just seems like a daunting task that I'm not willing to take on. That's why I'm introducing the "Organize One Thing Wednesdays." I'm sure you've heard it from your Momma--Lord knows I have--that if you do one thing each night, you'll keep your house clean and organized. I'm not even asking for that much. Just implement one organizing solution in your home on Wednesday. It'll be enough to make you feel calm and collected until you make it to that blessed Saturday when your house will be cleaned again. I'll share my favorite organizing tips, tricks and pictures--whether it be from the Internet or from my very own household. As always, share your ideas with me! We'll keep our houses organized and calm from Sunday night all the way till Saturday morning.
For the first installment, I'm going to share my favorite blog with you:
Seriously addicted to this blog. I could probably spend as much time reading through her posts as I could browsing Pinterest (that's A LOT). She has fabulous ideas on how to organize almost everything in the home. Not only that, she has tips on how to organize your life. She has gorgeous free and custom printables from everything from personalized family binders to colorful children's chore charts. I'm obsessed. I want to be her. Or have her come to my house and be my own personal organizer. Browse her blog, get great ideas and I'll be back next Wednesday with an organizing tip from my very own house. Clutter-free is the way to be! :)
Saturday, June 23, 2012
It's okay to be a follower. I promise.
Blogging is extremely cathartic. It's a great way to release your emotions and reflect on the things that went on during the week. Even though I do most of the blogging for myself, it's nice to know that people are actually reading what I'm posting. It's an ah-mazing feeling when I've written a blog post that I feel good about and I see that 94 people have read it. Sometimes, though, it can be discouraging when I see that I have only 11 followers and one person subscribed to my blog through email {HUGE thank you to those 12 peeps}. When I look at those numbers, I think "Should I just stop blogging? I don't really have anyone that reads it anyway!" Since becoming a blogger and being aware of my own follower numbers, I try to check out as many new blogs as I can...and if I love them, I become a follower. It's just a simple way to tell the author "Hey. I like you and I like what you're saying. Keep doing what you're doing." So I'm throwing out a plea....if you're a faithful follower of this blog through my Facebook account, take a second and become a follower. If you're REALLY interested in what I have to say, subscribe to email updates every time I put up a new post{the email subscription sign up and becoming a follower can both be found on the right ------>}. If you're new to this blog, WELCOME! I hope you'll stick around and like what you see and eventually become a follower. Thanks from the very bottom of my bloggin-lovin' heart. :)
Friday, June 22, 2012
High Fives all around!
It's nice to remember all the good things that happened this week instead of focusing on the things that went wrong. What's your High Five?
Wednesday, June 20, 2012
Sew! A needle pulling threaaaaddddd....
I have a problem.
My name is Devan and I'm an over-decorator. You know the kind....if there's a spare wall in their home, they hang pictures, mirrors, cover bare wall space with a plant or a curtain. If there's open table space, they fill it with candles, pictures, baskets, flowers. That's me. I cannot stand blank space. Currently, I'm obsessed with gallery walls. Put up some frames and other things, easy peasy lemon squeezy, you've got a filled wall and no blank space. Some of my favorite ideas can be found at Simcoe Street, Domestic Imperfection (one of my new favorite blogs), and Birch and Bird. Until I can make my gallery wall become a reality, I've turned to the other blank spaces in my house. Particularly, my fridge and shower....
Smooth surface fridge + dry erase markers=instant family message center |
Lather, rinse, get motivated, repeat. |
My favorite quotes to start my day |
This is one of my favorite things in our house. Forever I've been saying that I needed to put some quotes up on my mirror to pump myself up and make me feel better about the day that lay ahead of me. Then, I remembered that I still had bathtub crayons from college. Before you ask, I was very involved with FFA and served as the Kentucky FFA State President for a year. With the title, I was expected to give a lot (A LOT) of speeches and present workshops. Some people get all their good ideas during the night or while driving down the road. I get mine in the shower. Something about the mind-numbing routine of shampooing and shaving gives me the time for my mind to wander to other things. In fact, I wrote my entire 10 minute retiring address under my steamy shower head. What better way to start the day, than with quotes to remind you to be thankful, be nice and be self confident today?
Monday, June 18, 2012
Laun-dream-y rooms
Every family member has their own basket to put away |
I want a sink in my laundry room. Bad. |
Love the red and gray...and that island!! |
Organized AND spacious?? When can I move in?? |
Is there anything I can say about this that you're not already thinking.....??? |
More along the lines of my current (penny pinching) budget, I've currently got my eye on a clothes line. Eventually, when Marty and I figure out where we're going to be for a few years (it's kind of up in the air at the moment), I want an outdoor clothing line. Saves money by not running the dryer constantly and gives your clothes and sheets a fresh air clean smell. *mmmmmm*
Indoor Retractable clothesline by Home Depot |
Genius |
The...$5!....clothesline. We may have a winner. |
Saturday, June 16, 2012
eBay, anyone?
You can buy this item HERE |
Friday, June 15, 2012
1950s housewife, here I come.
Now, I'm looking to save money around the house. The obvious answer led me right to my laundry room. I know I can't be the only one who has gawked at the price of laundry detergent lately. It's RIDICULOUS. I buy Tide Coldwater because, obviously, I wash everything in cold water. I also buy Dreft because Avery had eczema pretty bad as a newborn, so I didn't want anything to irritate her already delicate skin. At ten months old, the eczema has all but disappeared and I'm ready to stop spending so much on detergent. At Wal-Mart, the Tide Coldwater is around $12 for 100 ounces. The Tide website says that you can get 52 loads out of a 100 oz. So I'll base my numbers around that estimate, although I probably get less loads out of a bottle because I'm super guilty of not measuring out my detergent. Pour some in the cap, dump in the wash, close the lid. Anyway, back to the detergent. If you are a good little laundry-doer and get the 52 loads out of a container, you're spending 23 cents a load. I hear you now, Devan it's only 23 cents. What on earth can you buy with 23 cents?? Just wait. If you also count the Dreft, which is about $16, at 52 loads, I'm spending 30 whopping cents a load on baby clothes. Yeah, that's gotta stop.
Once I decided that I wanted to go all pioneer woman and make my own detergent, I started looking around on Pinterest (of course) for the perfect detergent "recipe." I was surprised by the variety of homemade detergents. Some people put scented oil in theirs to give their laundry a fresh, clean scent. Others put Oxi Clean in to make sure their whites sparkled. Still others added baking soda to give their laundry that extra "oomph." Despite all the variations, three ingredients remained consistent in all the recipes--Borax, Arm & Hammer Super Washing Soda and bar soap. Most used a fancy type of washing soap like Fels-Naptha or Zote, but I decided that I would stick with good old, time trusted Ivory soap. I decided to stick with the basic 3 ingredients for now and leave the recipe open to change if I decided it needed a little something more.
Count 'em...just THREE ingredients |
After the two powders are poured, take a cheese grater and grate 3 bars of soap into the mix. If you have a food processer, you can use that....I'm not fancy and had to use a basic hand grater. The result will look like a bunch of grated Mozzarella cheese. It's not. Don't eat it. :) Another plus to making this detergent? Your arm gets a good workout while grating.
Don't be fooled...it's soap. |
Detergent! |
Of course I had to make the container pretty. I'm a self-diagnosed over decorator. |
Sources: Sugar Pie Farmhouse Yellow Brick Home How Does She?
Wednesday, June 6, 2012
Blog posts...written by God?
Do you ever hear God talking and you just ignore it, blaming it on concidence or your own thoughts leading you to a conclusion that you're looking for? Not so, my friend. God speaks, it's your choice whether or not you want to stop trying to control everything and listen to Him. Unfortunately, for too long I've tried to do everything myself. Avery doesn't sleep--I read parenting books for solutions, listen to the advice of other moms, let her cry it out, give her cereal before bed, let her sleep on the couch with her daddy, read some more parenting books. My house is a wreck--I get mad, I blame it on Marty, I make excuses and that I'm too exhausted from working my daytime job and dealing with Avery, I complain that I shouldn't be the only one to handle all the homemaking. Things happen that are out of my control--I ask "Why me?," I panic, I plan, I over-think and over-analyze. Not once is my first reaction to stop and pray. To ask God to ease my burden and help me through my problem. I'm not embarassed to tell you this because I'm finally admitting that I'm not a Supermommy. No matter how hard I try, I cannot control everything in my life and make things completely perfect. I have a Father for that. A Father who has cared for and loved me from the very moment I was stitched in my mother's womb. He "knew the plans He had for me" and what was in store for my life. So, why on earth do I think that I can handle my life better than He who created all things?? Here lately, I've been feeling so overwhelmed. Like there's too much going on in my life and, instead of trying to make things positive and look at the brighter side and hope for the best, I want to give it all up. I want to quit and complain that life is too hard and I shouldn't be expected to handle all that's coming our way. Do you think it was easy for Jesus to come to earth and die for you? To be nailed to a cross just so you and I can have eternal life? So who am I to complain about my 10 month old's lack of sleep or my piles of laundry? God has been talking to me a lot lately, and I've been ignoring Him. Whether it's through my Sunday school lesson or an email from my SIL, He's been there. Like a little child, I've stuck my fingers in my ears and turned away. Until today. I found a new blog called Aunt Ruthie's Sugar Pie Farmhouse, which posts about making your home into a Southern farmhouse and being a homemaker. You wouldn't think that would be the place that God would choose to talk to me...but He did. I came across this post about finding the motivation to do things that we deem as being "too hard" or not taking care of our homes because we "don't feel like it." Lord knows I'm all too guilty of that. I think that I can justify those 6 loads of dirty laundry sitting in the floor because I've had a long day or I have to cook dinner. The entire post got my attention. "Be the mama you want to be (even when you don't feel like it)" and "Tending to the hearth and home is a gift of LOVE" were all screaming out like they were written especially for me. It was a wake-up call to my current attitude. Unfortunately, the temperature in my house lately has been on too hot, with me being irrational and angry. Don't I want to create a warm and cozy environment for my family to live in? It was like God was talking right to me. He was telling me "Listen. I'm talking to you. I've given you a husband, a child, a home. I've blessed you by making you a wife and a mother. There are duties that go with these cherished titles. Do them and be happy while you're at it. And above all my child, stop complaining." Nothing like your Heavenly Creator telling you to suck it up and stop whining about things. I've been terrible to be around lately because I've been so focused on the things that weren't going the way I wanted them to...when all along, they've been going the way He wants. I heard a quote in our last Sunday school lesson that seems pretty appropriate: "If everyone were to throw their problems out into the middle of the room for all to see, you'd be quick to grab your own problems back." Im going to stop my complaining and face situations head-on....by getting on my knees and praying about them first. And to cherish the jobs that the Lord has given me. Not everyone gets to experience the blessing of marriage or the wonder of motherhood. I need to cherish the moments that I'm given and treat them with love and joy. Message received Lord.
Tuesday, June 5, 2012
Menu! Printables! Supper Clubbing!
Monday-- Rotel Chicken Skillet
Tuesday-- Ranch Chicken (Combine 3/4 cup crushed cornflakes. 3/4 cup parmesan cheese. 1 packet of hidden valley ranch dressing mix. Dip 8 chicken halves in melted butter and then roll in cornflake mix. Place in greased 9x13 pan. Bake @ 350 for 45 min)
Wednesday-- Forgotten Chicken
Thursday-- Baked Fajitas
Friday-Sunday, I'll be in Gatlinburg for my cousin's bachelorette party, so Marty and Avery are on their own. :)
And since we know that you should menu plan before you go shopping for all your dinner ingredients, I've made up your very own "Super Messy Supper Club" menu and grocery list planner for you to save to your computer and print off any time you make your weekly menu and shop accordingly. Happy menu planning. :)
Monday, June 4, 2012
No pictures, please.
Introducing! The Crafting Chronicles!
Source |
Saturday, June 2, 2012
My penny pinching brag of the week.
Friday, June 1, 2012
Penny Pinching Tips....from a pro.
Hey Penny Pinchers!
I hope that Devan has been giving you some helpful tips this summer about how she saves money and that you’ve been able to apply them to your own life. Dev asked me to “guest post” on her blog because her “Penny Pinching Summer” idea is exactly what I do in my job. I am the Family and Consumer Sciences Agent at the Nelson County Extension Office. (Every county has an extension office and most have an FCS agent- check out your county office here: www.ca.uky.edu/county). Basically, it’s my job to deliver UK information to the community about financial management, nutrition, food preservation, food safety, child development and much more. It’s kind of hard to explain to people but I love it.
Fortunately for you, the information I give out about financial management is all research based and backed by the one and only University of Kentucky. So, I figured I’d compile all of my favorite money saving tips into one and then give you the links to a few publications on saving money.
First: Couponing 101
Couponing 101 is just a lesson for basic coupon etiquette and use for those individuals who want to use coupons to save a little dough. Basically, it’s for those smart folks who take the free money stores send out in the paper every week.
When couponing, don’t make your list around the coupons. Make your grocery list, then browse the coupons to see if you can use any. If you hunt through coupons first you’ll end up buying things you don’t need just because you have a coupon for it, which ultimately, just cost you more money.
When you coupon, sort them out in some way that makes sense to you. Some people like to separate into food and non-food, some put them in order of the grocery store aisles, and others paper clip the ones they know they’re going to use onto their list. Regardless of how you do it, find a way that works best for you. It may take you a few tries but you’ll figure something out.
The first rule of couponing is this: only try to use the coupons for what they are intended. If it says buy three, save $3.00, no you may not buy one and save $1.00. Buy what it says you need to buy for the coupon to be honored.
Second, don’t try to use expired coupons. They have an expiration date on them for a reason. If you have some recently expired coupons, visit www.coupsfortroops.com to find an address to someone you can send them to who will send them overseas to our military families who have access to commissaries. They can use them up to 6 months expired there. (only manufacturer’s coupons!)
Last, don’t get angry at the cashier if one of your coupons doesn’t work. First, make sure you bought the correct item and amount (don’t try to buy a 16 oz Coke and use a coupon for a 20 oz). Then, if you have the correct items and it still won’t scan, check the expiration date and check that it isn’t a coupon for another store. Using a Dollar General coupon at Kroger aint gonna fly. If all of this is correct, calmly ask for the manager. No big deal.
I think couponing is a wonderful thing- I honestly see coupons as free money. If you have to buy toilet paper and it would have cost you 5.89 without a coupon, but you have a coupon for .40 cents off, imagine that you paid your normal 5.89 and they just handed you back .40 cents. For free. It helps.
I just skimmed the very basics of this publication. Check it out to learn about sale cycles (typically 12 weeks) and more. It’s worth the read: http://www.ca.uky.edu/hes/FCS/FACTSHTS/FRM-AP-087.pdf
Next, we have these awesome “Add Up the Savings” cards. They’re quick tips to saving money different ways. Let me re-cap for you:
Add Up the Savings When Eating Out: http://www.ca.uky.edu/HES/FCS/FACTSHTS/AUTS_When_eating_out.pdf
1. The obvious one- try to limit the number of times you go out to eat.
2. Don’t order super size meals. They only add calories and money. Order smaller, save money.
3. Drink water. Sodas shouldn’t cost 2+ dollars but they usually do. So again, save money, save calories. If you don’t like the taste of water, take a flavor packet into the restaurant with you.
4. Bring your lunch to work. Sometimes this isn’t feasible if we’re on the road or we have a lunch meeting, but when possible, you can save up to $1,000 a year. And I know there aren’t too many people out there who couldn’t use an extra $1,000 a year. Lunches is one of the fastest ways we blow our money. Spend an extra ten minutes at night or in the morning to pack yourself one, or better yet, eat your leftovers from the night before.
5. Eat earlier in the day when you’re going out for dinner. Many places up the prices of their meals later in the evening. Get there while they’re still offering the early prices.
6. Order off the lunch menu if you go during the day. They’re usually smaller portions and cost less, again saving money and calories (anyone else see a theme here?)
7. Avoid vending machines or stopping at a gas station for snacks. They’re usually packed with fat and cost more than they should. Keep a drawer of healthy snacks in your office or at home.
Add Up the Savings On Clothing: http://www.ca.uky.edu/HES/FCS/FACTSHTS/AUTS_on_clothing.pdf
1. Avoid fads that are probably going to be unfashionable next season. Those flamingo pants may be cool today, but they probably won’t be in a month, and you just dropped $50 for something you can only wear a few times. Purchase classic pieces that you’ll be able to re-wear season after season.
2. Don’t buy lots of bright colors. These can usually only be worn in spring. Darker colors can be worn all year.
3. Follow care instructions when washing and drying your clothes. Meaning, if it says dry clean only- dry clean it. Don’t risk tearing it up, then you’ll just have to go buy another one. (Personal opinion: don’t buy things that are dry clean only in the first place!)
4. Buy solid colored pieces so you can mix and match and re-wear more often without people noticing. If you start to show up in that start studded pink zebra shirt more than once a month, people will talk.
5. Use accessories at a minimum. Yes, they are nice and can add to an outfit, but they also cost quite a bit of money. Find classic earrings you can wear with anything and a good watch and bracelet or necklace. Use extravagant accessories for special occasions.
6. Shop at consignments stores. Yes, I said it and I mean it. Consignments stores can offer you the same thing a store offers you for a much cheaper price. Who cares that someone wore it a few times already? It’s half the price and technically, people have tried on the clothes in the store, so they’ve been worn too.
7. Don’t buy clothes you don’t need. If you already have a black shirt in good condition, don’t buy another one.
8. Learn how to sew to make minor repairs. (You can all come to my beginner’s sewing class at the Nelson County Extension Office if you need to learn. July 25th at 5:30 p.m. and it only costs $5.00)
There are also “Add Up The Savings” cards when shopping for food, at home, on energy, and on food preparation. See those here:
At Home: http://www.ca.uky.edu/HES/FCS/FACTSHTS/AUTS_at_home.pdf
On Food Preparation: http://www.ca.uky.edu/HES/FCS/FACTSHTS/AUTS_at_home.pdf
When Shopping For Food: http://www.ca.uky.edu/HES/FCS/FACTSHTS/AUTS_at_home.pdf
On Energy: http://www.ca.uky.edu/HES/FCS/FACTSHTS/AUTS_on_energy.pdf
My last money saving tid-bit is this: host a swap party! Get some snacks, call up your girls and get together for a night of fun! Have everyone bring their purses, shoes, clothes, books, whatever that are in good condition, lay them out and swap! Then, have the party the next month (or rotate it to someone else’s house) and do it again! Bring the same items (friend A may have borrowed friend B’s purse that you really wanted to get) and/or bring some new things! You’ll always have new things without spending a dime! Plus you get girl time!
Basically, just be aware of how much you’re spending and what you’re spending your money on. I recently went through my bank statements and saw that I had bought 12 McDonalds Sweet Teas in one month. TWELVE. I justified it to myself each time that it was only a dollar. ONE DOLLAR! Who can pass up a large delicious sweet tea when it’s so cheap? Well I can when I figure out I’d spent twelve dollars over the course of the month. Needless to say, I’ve banned myself. I grab a cup and fill it up with water instead. No money, no calories. I really don’t see a down side to it!
I hope you all find this helpful, I know it was long but I hope it was worth it! And please don’t hesitate to call me (our office number is 502-348-9204), email me (dayna.parrett@uky.edu) , or check out my work blog (www.nelsonfcs.wordpress.com) if you want more information! I also try to tweet financial tips every now and then (@NelsonCountyFCS). You’re also welcome to call the FCS agent in your own county. That’s what we’re here for!
Additional publications you might find interesting:
How To Keep Money In Your Pocket: http://www.ca.uky.edu/agc/pubs/fcs5/fcs5102/fcs5102.pdf
Supermarket Savvy: http://www.ca.uky.edu/HES/fcs/FACTSHTS/FRM-RHF-131.pdf
The Power of Ten: http://www.ca.uky.edu/HES/fcs/FACTSHTS/frm-ssb-76.pdf
There are tons more! Visit http://www.ca.uky.edu/hes/index.php?p=206 to see all of the financial management publications. From estate planning, to retirement planning, to which bread machine to buy, we’ve got you covered.
Happy Penny Pinching! :)